The day after Father's Day has brought resolve to my heart and spirit. As I stood in my dining room listening to stories about fathers, my heart suddenly felt a peace I hadn't felt before concerning my dad. God has done a great thing.I am a fatherless daughter. For those who know me, they may not understand this statement. I lived in the home with both my parents. Yet, emotionally I was fatherless. For so many years I became emotionally and physically fatherless. Because of this, I made decisions for years that brought a lot of pain into my heart. Whenever I would think about my dad and what he taught me, all I could see was the pain. As the end of ...
Monday, September 16, 2019
Do I Really Need ClosureThe pain of ending a relationship can last for a long time. As divorced moms, we don't only have to think of our pain, but the pain of our children. The end of the relationship, may not necessarily mean the end of the feelings you have for the other person. Because of this, you can believe and/or need closure in some way to go forward. The need for closure means something remains open that requires something externally or internally for it to be finalized. Many times it is the wound inside our heart and soul that holds the pain of betrayal and much more. At some point, in order to move forward, you have to ask yourself, "What am I really expecting?"Many times we ...